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Mirabel Johnson – Nigerian Scammer

Posted: 04-01-2012 | Author: admin | No comments

I got yet another unsolicted email from a Nigerian scammer. Note the flower at the end next to her name. Nigerian scammers love those flowers. Here is the email:

Hello Dearest
Thank you so much for writing back and I will really like to have a  good relationship with you, because I have a special reason why I decided  to contact you, due to the urgency of my situation here and I am Miss mirabel Johnson, 24 years old girl from Sudan to Central Africa, 5.9ft tall, the only daughter of  My late father (Dr Johnson Arop). was Assistant managing director of Sudan Forestry Development Authority (FDA) and Ministry of Commerce and Industry, who was killed by (Dr John Garang de Mabior) and his rebels groups after  many innocent soul were killed ,My father was killed by government of (Dr John Garang de Mabior), he accuse my father of coup attempt before the election.

I am constrained to contact you because of the maltreatment I, am  receiving from my step mother. She planned to kill me and take away all my late father’s  treasury and properties from me since the unexpected death of my beloved father.

Meanwhile I wanted to escape to the Europe but she hide away my international passport and other valuable traveling documents. Luckily she did not discover where I kept my Father’s File which contains important documents. So I decided to run to the refugee camp where I am presently seeking asylum under the United Nations High Commission for the Refugee here in Dakar , Republic of Senegal . remember that I wish to contact you personally due to the trust i am depositing on you,

My father of blessed memory deposited the sum of US$6.7 Million (Six Million Seven Hundred Thousand Dollars) in a Bank with my name as the next of kin. However, I shall forward you with the necessary information of the deposit on confirmation of your acceptance to assist me for the transfer and investment of the fund. As you will help me in an investment, and I will like to complete my studies, as I was in my first year in the university, when the crisis started.

It is my intention to compensate you with 20% of the total money for your services and the balance shall be my investment capital. This is the reason why I decided to contact you. Please all communications should be through my email address and this is the Rev Father Timothy telephone number ( +221-77-48-75-966 )  (  +221774875966  )i will like you to call and tell him to send for me. he will send for me.

As soon as I receive your positive response I will put things into action immediately. In the light of the above, I shall appreciate an urgent message indicating your ability and willingness to handle this transaction sincerely.
I’m staying at the female hostel. Awaiting your urgent and positive  response. Please do keep this only to your self please I beg you not to  disclose it till I come over , once the fund has been transferred, Please do send me your full information, so that i will inform the bank and late them know you are my foreign business partner/trustee and for them to know you are for me when you contact them and I will send you the bank contact information once I receive your full details..
Fill the information’s below and get back to me.

1. Your Full Names:………………………..
2. Your Address:………………………….
3. Your Sex:……………………………
4. Your Age………………………….
5. Your Marital status:…………..
6. Your Occupation…………………….
7. Your Direct Phone number:…………………
8. Your Resident City:………………….
9. Your Resident State:………………….
10.Your Country:……………………………

Meanwhile i will like you to call me like i said, i have a lot to tell you. Dearest i want you to know that age or distant doesn’t matter anything but love matters a lot of things. I would like to know more about you, your likes and dislikes,your hobbies and what you are doing presently.I will tell you more about myself in my next mail. Attached here is my picture, Hoping to hear from you soon.
Have a nice day and think about me.
Yours love, Miss mirabel.

Brenda Bosco – Nigerian Scammer

Posted: 28-12-2011 | Author: admin | No comments

Hello Dear,
Compliment of the season.I appreciate your concern and your willingness so far for assisting me, the most important thing i need from you right now is your honesty and trustworthiness. I choose you in this transaction, based on my present status here in Dakar as a refugee under asylum. According to the financial governing laws of this country, people under refugees are not allowed to participate into monetary transaction or operate personal bank account with large sums international or locally and i don’t want to stay here.

I want you to understand more about my situation here in the camp, I am e-mailing you from the office of the Rev.Father who is Priest at the church in the refugee camp, I have explained to him a little about my life though not everything, i told the Rev.Father about my communication with you and he permitted me to access my e-mail in his office computer twice a day, here in the refugee camp, meanwhile life is not easy since I don’t have any body here to take care of me.

I don’t have access to further my education, no access to clean water,no access to good food here in the refugee camp, life has not been easy to me. I am only surviving through the aid of the Rev. Father Philip Jacob who is the priest at the church in the refugee camp, i told him about you and he permitted me to be receiving phone calls from you through his office telephone number; which is as follows:( +221773382186  ) call me i don’t have any money at hand here, when you call rev father tell him that you want to speak with Miss.Brenda Bosco the Zimbabwe girl.

I will furnish you with all the vital documents covering the deposited fund under the holding bank, only if you can promise me that you are not going to betray me or sit on my inheritance after the money transfer to your account in your country, please tell me more about yourself again in your next mail.
Please understand that there is no illegality involvement in this transaction, you are going to deal with the holding bank directly. i am with important documents here. deposit certificate of the money and death certificate of my late father. all i need from you now is your sincerity,honest and seriousness about this transaction. try to send mail to me every day so that we will do this transaction with out westing any time.

Please reply me urgently with
Full name,…………………….
Your country and city name …………….
your phone number ………….
your pic if you have pic ………
your age…………
your occupation ….

i need all your information So that i can submit them to the bank to enable send mail about you for them to know that you are the one who will access to my father’s deposited funds and then apply for it’s claim and transfer directly on my behalf to your account. May God bless you and your family,
i will send you the bank contact in my next mail so that you will contact the bank for the transfer. I attached my photos here special for you and i will like to see yours too.
I am waiting for your response soonest.
One Love
Brenda

Beneficiary Nigerian Scam letter

Posted: 20-12-2011 | Author: admin | No comments
Attention Beneficiary. Compliment, We have issued payment authorization
 order to Western Union Money Transfer, Dubai, United Arab Emirates (UAE)
 to immediately start transferring your $5000 twice a day until your 
total amount of $500.000.00 USD Five Hundred Thousand United State 
Dollars being payment of your winning compensation/ poverty alleviation
 progamme from United Nation is paid in full. Western Union Dubai United
 Arab Emirates has taking over the release of all payment from Contract,
inheritance, Lottery Winning prize, Atm Debit cards. Henceforth 
commercial banks, Security Companies,ATM Credit,Debit Union and 
offshore payment centres are no more authorized to handle release of 
funds. Contact the Western Union Money Transfer DUBAI-UNITED ARAB 
EMIRATES (UAE) immediately with the below contact information Western
 Union Manager: Jeffrey Lucas Smith Email:(westernunuae@kimo.com )
 Direct phone line is: +971 551 189 953 We agreed that you will pay 
$280 to them for authentication Approval document from the court to 
enable them release your remaining 4 digits MTCN to you. this is the 
new law in UAE. Here is your Payment Information. 
MTCN :_______________ 107-893--- #### Tell him to give you the 
remaining 4 digits Sender's Name:_________Jeffrey Lucas Smith Amount
 Sent___________ $5000.00 USD Address: Dubai,United Arab Emirates UAE 
You have just Seven (7) days to process your payment file. send your
cell phone number in your reply CONGRATULATIONS!!!
 Yours in service. Hon. (Mrs) Betsy Manpoulimas, 
Chairperson: Payment Reconciliation Board UN-IMF 

Brenda Bosco – Nigerian Scammer Email

Posted: 17-12-2011 | Author: admin | No comments

Here is another unsolicited email I got from a Nigerian Scammer that said they found me on an internet dating site, which they did not because I am not on one:

 

Hello Dear, How are you doing?
i hope all is well with you, I will really like to have a good relationship with you and I have a special reason why I decided to contact you because of the urgency of my situation here. I am writing this mail to you with heavy tears In my eyes and great sorrow in my heart, My name is Miss.Brenda Bosco. Am 25years old girl from Zimbabwe, the only daughter of Late joseph bosco who was killed by his Business partner. my late father was importer and exporter of many types of business. my father was killed by his Business partner.

my father Business partner sent armed robbers to kill all the members of my family because my father was progressing more than him. the armed robbers came around 1:am in the night they killed my father my mother and my two small brothers. Am the only survival in my family because i was not in the house when the criminals came i was in the school hostel. Am the only survival of my family so i managed to make my way to the nearby country Senegal, where am now residing in a refugee camp in Dakar Senegal for the sake of my life. I am constrained to contact you because of the maltreatment I am receiving from my step mother since i loss my parents. She planned to take away all my late father’s treasury and properties from me since the unexpected death of my beloved Father. Her aim was to kill me too so that she will take every thing my father left.

Meanwhile I wanted to escape to Europe but she hide away my international passport and other valuable traveling documents. Luckily she did not discover where I kept my Father’s File which contains important documents. So I decided to run to the refugee camp in dakar senegal where I am presently seeking asylum under the United Nations High Commission for the Refugee here in Dakar, Republic of Senegal. I wish to contact you personally for a long term business relationship and investment assistance in your country.

My father of blessed memory deposited the sum of US$ 5.500,000.00 us dollars in Finance Firm with my name as the next of kin when he was alive. i want you to help me to transfer this money from the bank my late father deposited it to your account in your country so that i will join you and invest the money over there. i contact you because i need a Foreign business partner who will help me in this transaction. i can only get Foreign business partner through computer that is the reason why i contacted you. However I shall forward you the necessary information of the deposit on confirmation of your acceptance to assist me for the transfer and investment of the fund in your country.

As you will help me in an investment and I will like to complete my studies in your country after the transfer, as I was in my school before i escaped to this country senegal to safe my life. i want you to help me to transfer the money from the bank my late father deposited the money to your account in your country all i need is your honesty and trustworthiness.
It is my intention to compensate you with 20% of the total money for your services and the balance shall be my investment capital. This is the reason why I decided to contact you. Please all communications should be through this email address only for confidential purposes.

there are millions of people in this country who will help me if i tell them this matter, but i don’t want to stay in this country and i don’t want to invest any thing in this country.
As soon as I receive your positive response showing your interest I will put things into action immediately.
Please do keep this only to your self please I beg you not to disclose it to any body till I come over to you in your country once the fund has been transferred. I hope my explanation is very clear but if you need further clarification, then send in your questions. i will send you my photo in my next mail. Thanks as i hope to receive from you soon.

One Love
Brenda

Ehivet Kafoumba, Nigerian scammer email

Posted: 08-12-2011 | Author: admin | No comments

here is an email from an Nigerian Scammer who claimed to have found me on a internet dating site, and I am not on any.

Hello Dear,

Thanks for your mail response, it’s pleasure to hear from you. I feel so pleased to get in touch with you and seek your interest for a decent relationship. Once again my name is Ms Ehivet Kafoumba, a citizen of  Côte d’Ivoire in West Africa.

I am single, 23 years old, i could not finish my higher education due to war situation in my country. I am sorry to inform you that myself and my family suffered a tragedy out of civil war in my country and several political crisis. I am presently in Senegal as a refugee and i have decided not to go back to my country for now as a result of political instability, killings and several unrest.

However, i would like to discuss little about myelf. I am who i am and so much interested in true Fidelity, charity, honesty, wisdom and love, i like hanging out with decent friends at decent time and places, reading my books, traveling, i enjoy going to dinner, Cinema and mostly outdoor activities.

I would like you to tell me more about yourself such as your favorites, how old you are, what exactly do you do for a living and what is your nationality? Meanwhile, attached to this message are my pictures specially for you alone and i look forward to receive your pictures as you respond. I hope to hear from you soon. Thanks.

Yours lovely
Ehivet Kafoumba.

Grace Adam – Nigerian Scammer Email

Posted: 26-11-2011 | Author: admin | No comments

This is yet another unsolicited email from a Nigerian scammer who claims to have seen my profile on a dating site. I do not have any profiles on any dating sites. She also assumes I am a man and I am not. Here is her second email.

 

Dearest ,
How are you today? i hope fine, i really thank you for your reply to
the mail i sent you through the site. My name is Miss Grace Adam, i am
23 years old, i was an undergraduate in general Nursing, i am hoping
to further my education in nearby future.

i am not married and i don’t have any kids, I’m a bite fair in
complexion and of average of height, i am from Liberia in west Africa
and presently residing in the refugee camp here in Dakar Senegal as a
result of the civil war that was fought in my country last four years.
The name of my Late father was Dr Lion Adam,

he was the managing director of, ECONET GROUP of Company in our
Capital City Monrovia, and he was the Minister of Foreign Affair in
the Liberian Government of Liberia before the rebels  attacked my
house one early morning killing my mother and my father,

So i am the only surviving person in my family, then i have to ran to
a nearby country which is where I’m now in the refugee camp, haven’t
finish up my education and need a man who will make use of my fathers
wealth and get me through in life,
I would like to know more about you. Your likes and dislikes, your
hobbies and what you are doing presently.
I will tell you more about myself in my next mail. I attach here my
picture for you to know whom i am. I wait to hear from you soonest
Love from
Grace..

Nina Camara – Nigerian Scammer

Posted: 22-11-2011 | Author: admin | No comments

Here is another unsolicited email from yet another Nigerian scammer:

Dearest,
Thank you so much for your mail and for the hand of friendship, I appreciate that you brought out the time to write even if you have not seen me; i believe that this friendship will be built on trust and love. I am ninacamara, 24 years old Medical student,my father of a blessed memory by name Late Omar camara who was the deputy general manager with CNPC oil company at the Khartoum refinery in Sudan was killed alongside with
my beloved M
om.Please help me out in what I am about to tell you.
I know you must be surprised and sacred with my offer, but please believe in me as a lonely sincere heart with alot of agony, but my condition has forced me to do that. I was depride from my rightful belonging because of my refugee statue. As a refugee here i don’t have any right or privilege to any thing be it money or whatever. this is the law of Senegal.
i have chosen to contact you after my prayers. Briefly,I will like to disclose much to you if you will help me to relocate to your country with the substance that i inherited from my parent.I have a substantial amount of $5.7M(Five Million Seven Hundred Thousand US Dollars).he deposit this money, and he used my name as the next of king to the money.I am unbale take the money because of my refugee statue over here in Senegal.
I will like you to assist me get back this money, when the transferred is done into your
account, you will take out little out of the total money and send to me,this will be used for my traveling documents and ticket to come to your country. I kept this secret because i don’t want to be hurt
in anyway, the only person that knows about it is one of the Reverend Sister here, who is just like a mother to me. Please keep it to yourself and don’t tell it to anyone as I believe that those people that killed my Daddy are still after me. for i am afraid of loosing my life and the money if people gets to know about it. Attached here is my pictures to you and shall also need yours too. I am waiting to see your mail to my email.
Thanks and God bless you.
Hug and Kiss
Yours Lonely Friend
Mis nina camara email address: ninacamara67@yahoo.in

Grace John, Nigerian Scammer

Posted: 22-11-2011 | Author: admin | 1 Comment

This is an unsolicited email that I received from a Nigerian Scammer. They said they found my profile on a dating site, which is a lie because I am not on one. They also assumed (incorrectly) that I am male, when in actuality I am female.

My Dear ,

I am more than happy in your urgent reply to my mail.How was your day?.
mine was cool over here in  Daker Senegal.
My name is grace  john am from libaria in west Africa and
presently i  am residing in the refugee camp here in dakar as a result of
the civil war going on in my country.My late father Dr john was the
personal advicer to the former head of state before the rebels attacked my
house one early morning killing my mother and my father. It was only me that
is alive now and i managed to make my way to near by country Senegal where i
am leaving now. I would like to know more about you. Your likes and
dislikes,your hobbies and what you are doing presently.I will tell more
about myself in my next mail.
Attached here is my picture,
Hoping to hear from you soonest.
Thanks.grace  john

Glory Johnson, Nigerian Scammer

Posted: 18-11-2011 | Author: admin | No comments

Here is an email we received from “Glory”, who found us on an internet dating site (we are not on one) and loved our photos (we have none anywhere) and thinks we are a man (we are not).

Hello My Dear Friend,

I am more than happy in your urgent reply to my e-mail. How are you today? l hope fine.Mine is not too good due to my present condition here in Senegal.
My name is Miss Glory Johnson I am (24) years old, single and never married, 5ft 8 inches Tall, 55kg weight, black hair and brown eyes,l am from Liberia in West Africa and presently l am residing in Orphanage home here in Senegal as a result of the civil war that was fought in my country some years ago.

I lost both of my Parents during this deadly Political War.That Damaged Thousands of innocent Souls in Liberia.My family was among the first target of the rebels because my Late father was  a Successful business man  and also a politician supporting the Present Government when the problems was about to start.All the members of my family were murdered in a cold blood and our family house was set blazed.I was Lucky and escaped death because i was in my  school  when this deadly incident took place.
It is only me is alive now and l managed to make my way to a nearby country Senegal where l am staying now and never pray or think to step my legs in that bloody country agan called Liberia.

In this camp were we are not allowed to go out,It’s just like one staying in the prison and i hope by God’s grace i will come out here soon.
I don’t have any relatives now whom i can go to, all my relatives ran away in the middle of the war the only person i have now is Reverend Collins Adams, who is the pastor of the
(Life Christian Churches) here in the camp,he has been very nice to me since i came here but i am not living with him rather i am leaving in the women hostel because the camp have two hostels one for men the other for women.
The Pastor’s Tel number is (00221-777939164) and his e-mail address is
(rev_collins_a@yahoo.com) When you call tell him that you want to speak with me he will send for me in the hostel.
As a refugee here i don’t have any right or privileged to any thing be it money or whatever because it is against the law of this country.I want to go back to my studies because i only attended my first year before the tragic incident that lead me being in this situation now took place.
Listen to this i have my late father’s Certificate Deposit of account and death certificate which i will send to you latter, Because when he was alive he deposited some amount of money in a leading bank  which he used my name as the next of kin,The amount in question is $8.6M Us dollars
(Eight Million six Hundred Thousand Dollars).So i will like you to help me transfer this money to your account and from it you can send some money for me to get my traveling documents and air ticket to come over to meet with you.
I kept this secret to people in this camp here the only person that knows about it is the Reverend because he is like a father to me.because i am afraid to loose this money if they gets to know about it.
So, in the light of above i will like you to keep it to yourself and don’t tell it to anyone for i am afraid of loosing my life and the money if people gets to know about it.
Remember i am giving you all this information due to the trust i deposed on you.I like honest and understanding people,truthful and a man of vision and hardworking.
My  language is English  but i am living in french speaking Country.Mean while i will like you to feel free and call me with the Rev number above please,when you have chance, Because i have a lot to tell you.
Attach bellow  here is my picture more over i will like to have your own picture too and also to know very well your country where you are living now.God bless you. Waiting to hear from you soonest.
Yoursforever  inlove
Miss Glory.

This is a typical email from a Nigerian Scammer. They love to tell you that they may be really busy in the future and may take a while to answer your emails. That is because they have to pay for internet access at the local internet cafe. They like chat better so they pay less. More conversation and more time to get you on the hook with chat as fast as possible.
To:
Sent: Friday, August 12, 2011 8:20 PM
Subject: RE:
Hello X,
Good Morning from Lagos .. How is it going? I get really busy with work and I hope you’ll understand that in future if my response arrives late, LOL.. Thanks for the note and your comments. I want to assume you are aware that Kathy is my only daughter and she is 16 yrs old. I would like to ask before writing anything that would make me forget. Hope its not a problem that I have a child? And I am also hoping you wont have a problem accepting us as a package, if we ever end up being together. We all want the best for our kids and all I want is for her to have a happy life and healthy relationship with my special woman. I am delighted about how expressive and straight you were in your previous note. I want a serious relationship.. I am not getting any younger and more importantly, I am tired of being lonely. I have missed so many things you cant get unless you are with a partner and I want to make up with time… I am looking for that special woman I can spend the rest of my life, loving and adoring!
Opening my mail and reading about your curiosity was a little discouraging but i can understand you trying to protect yourself. I will really love to share more with you about myself, my life, my wants, my past and my hopes. Sorry I didn’t send this mail before now. I got your mail earlier but I was busy and couldn’t respond right away. I am taking my time to write this letter amongst several other things I have to do. So, kindly take the time to read through and answer some of the questions whilst asking me some. First and foremost, how long have you been looking online? Any good experience? I havent been on the site till lately when I contacted you. I have made up my mind to take the time necessary, to write a detailed email to you, that’s why I am writing this email NOW, making sure nothing will disturb or distract me..
I have realized so many things about life and I am looking for that special woman to share these experiences and all that life has to offer. In my previous marriage, one thing I learned is keeping relationship matters within ourselves and not seeking other people’s (who doesn’t feel what the couple feels) advice. I also believe in openness and honesty. With secrets, no relationship will last. OK. A little about me, I am a Civil Engineer (Construction).
I am single and completly unattched, My EX who happened to b e my daughter’s mom was involved in an Auto accident which took her life and that of her husband while they were on vacation. It was a shocker on me and my daughter. Even though we are seperated, she WAS once the love of my life and will forever remain the mother of my daughter. I was born in Victoria, Australia on the 24th day of March 1963, moved with my family to Duluth , GA immediately after my birth. I later moved to Jamaica , NY with my Uncle when I was 12 years old; after the death of both parents. I lost my dad when I was 7 years old; he had a heart attack when he was in a surgery. I lived with my mom in Duluth for another year and later moved to NY when she died 5 yrs later. I guess because of the undying love between them, she forgot she has an only son and left me in the world as an orphan. She just didn’t stay long after his death before she died. 
More about me; I am a very kind-hearted man and I have learnt that in life, the only things I can count on is my creator, my instincts and my woman. I have been hurt a lot and hope that I will find the right woman for me. I am very serious about meeting my significant partner and I am not ready for games at all. I hope to meet this special woman I can show love to and spend the rest of my life with. I adore children and care about my daughter a lot. I attended the University of Glasgow , in Scotland where I had my B.Sc Civil Engineering. I am very laid-down and down-to-earth. I am also very old-fashioned when it comes to my respect and treatment for women. I am a social wine drinker but a non-smoker, have a great sense of humor and like to spend time with people and make th em laugh. I have always memorized this quote and it has happened to be my favorite quote + I believe in it strongly: A man can love a thousand different women, but it takes a REAL MAN to love a woman a thousand different ways.
I have lived in Anchorage Alaska, Trousdale Estate, california, I have lived in St. Albans NY. I was living in Hobart City ,Tasmania before I had to leave for work in Feb 2008 but i come back to  Australia  in between . I have been in Africa since Febuary 2008 for a Special Project . The Construction of Roads, New Homes and Renovating of the Old ones for Orphans. Its an innovation of UNICEF and the Peace Corps for the West African States and financed by the Nigerian Government.)The project covers five (5) different countries in West Africa; Ghana, Nigeria, Togo, Ivory Coast and Benin Republic. Funding and appraisal is being taken care of by the Nigerian Government. I should be out of here in less than 2 month, the project shouldn’t take this long but because of some unforeseen circumstances, the whole process has been delayed and its taking longer than anticipated. We are at the last country now, which is Nigeria, and the process should be concluded between now and the next few weeks and i can return back to Hobart.
I am single and completely unattached and would be glad if I encounter a woman of high caliber, good attitude, self respect and ambition. A woman who knows what she wants and is determined to get it. She has to be understanding and sincere that way a relationship would be smoother. Well, at a point in my last marriage I started suspecting my ex’s dishonesty and later caught her in bed with my best friend. Ever since, I have vowed never to get married again, I did try after our divorce but got burnt (long story). I have been hurt badly and that leaves me with a negative impression about women in general. But my daughter has made me understand that all women are not the same. So, I am all out of my cave now to meet that special woman that is just for me. I do believe in soul-mates. More so, this life is very short and I do want to be happy the little time, I have left to live on this planet earth.. I am afraid of growing old alone when Kathy is all grown and out of the home.. I know for sure, that God has the right woman for me when the time comes.
Kathy happens to be my ONLY daughter now, I love her so much and I am trying to raise her to be one of the rare breed out there: a humble lady who stands by her words, reliable, reputable, independent, self-confident, knows her worth, loves God, treats people (more especially older people) with respect, focused, disciplined, be playful, be fun, great sense of humor always and be a warrior with a tender heart. As for fun: I like mentally stimulating activities and also I like fun. I adore adventure-traveling, to feel and research the culture of the countries and learn new things. To just hop in the car someday with my family and drive across the States. I enjoy reading, watching movies, swimming, dancing. I like nature: trees, forest, ocean, mountains, beach, zoo. I am passionate about flowers, basically nature! I like camping, fishing, cycling, biking, golf, all kinds of sports – like the indoors too, I also like the city life. I take a walk when the weather’s mild, but go to the pool with my daughter, or sometimes the beach when it’s sunny!
Well, it is said that when a relationship ends and you’ve tried your best, God knows, it is best to move on, and that there is someone waiting, someone special, until then we have our life to rebuild, to do good unto others, to bring joy, even to those we have left behind. The universe has a funny way of circling and recycling. Its rotating, we can not go back unless it is foreseen. There are no rhymes or reason to love. You either love or you do not. I want to fall in love again, I am ready and willing to go into a serious relationship that will lead to marriage. Depending on who I meet and her wants, marriage is a possibility not a MUST. I am looking for someone who is secure, balanced, stable, open and knows what she wants in a partner and in life. I want someone who is not afraid of commitment, someone who can communicate well, both with words, feelings and body languages. Someone who will treat me as an equal and not an object. A good sense of humor, outgoing, likes horses and all other animals too. A romantic person, someone who is not afraid to cook dinn er once in a while! Someone who will walk beside me and not in front of or behind me, someone who loves kids and is able to get dirty one minute and get dressed, to go out the next minute. Diversity, maturity, stability, independence and just all-around, imperfect for the world but perfect for me.
A magic relationship, you know when you are sad, when you feel alone, when the world look out so terrible, when people maim and even kill each other, then you need some place to run away, some place where you can feel safe, there you can feel that nothing, none can touch you, hurt you. Exactly that is a relationship for me. I want a family, a home, full of tenderness, sincerity, faithfulness and above all peace. I want love, of-course lots of love. I consider myself good-looking, I am a nice person as well, at-least the people I have had to deal with on daily basis confirmed that. I am sociable. I am affectionate and romantic, friendly and confident. I am open-minded and cheerful. I am trying to describe myself as much as I can with words so you know what to look forward to if things eventually work out for the two of us.. That’s my hope and the reason why I am making my fingers dance so much on the keyboard, to the rhythm of my heart!!
I work hard and I want to g row both in my job, personally with my daughter as I have always done and now with the woman that I have been waiting for all my life. I just want to fall in love again and I feel “NOW” is the time, I am done with kids except my partner wants another, either by adoption or who knows? The last time I checked, menopause isn’t for men, LOL. I am romantic, humorous, caring, loving and faithful. I hope to find and meet a lady to fall in love with. I am clever, intelligent, communicative, honest and ready for commitments but also I would like her to be sweet, faithful, caring, comprehensive, family lover, elegant, cheerful and LOVE KIDS. Its really important because I don’t want to put my daughter in any jeopardy or in any sort of danger with whoever I end up sharing my future with, a nice family with strong feelings. I am very responsible, kind, calm, serious (just when it’s necessary), confident, purposeful, persistent, smart, honest, modest, loyal, flexible, sociable, sensitive, gentle, cheerful, optimistic, considered responsible and with a great sense of humor. This all sounds like an advertisement, lol.. but anyway I am a bit…. stubborn – in a good way, of-course!
I would love someone who is fun to be around, likes to laugh, funny, enjoys the outdoor, enjoys going for romantic walks, enjoys looking at the stars at night, and watching the Sunset rise over the ocean. I am looking for someone that enjoys the simple things in life, just like I do. I like to meet someone special that I can grow old with, and that we can always look into each other’s eyes in decades and realize that the love between us is just as wonderful, strong and exc iting as the day we met. I want to love a woman for who she is, to spoil her, and adore her, and let her know just how much she means to me, by the little things I do or say to make her feel special. While she treats me the same way….with love and respect! I am looking for that special someone that I can spend the rest of my life with, we’ll grow old together, loving and caring for each other. Even on our worst days we will still be happy in love and can work through anything that comes our way. We will spend countless romantic days and evenings together, just enjoying every bit of the time we spend together both in person and mere thoughts, when we are not together…
I definitely want to find someone that is stable, serious about a relationship and secure. A woman who knows how to treat her man special. I want to find that person that I can’t wait to talk to when not together. Someone I can’t wait to spend the rest of my life with, and that feels the same way. I am looking for someone that is down to earth, but can also be spontaneous, someone that likes to travel, likes sports, and loves kids. If you like to dance that is a plus but not someone that is into the club scene. Hope I haven’t bored you with this long email. I just felt within myself that: “What’s worth doing is worth doing well”.. hence the stories and ads, LOL! I will be looking forward to your version of this note. Don’t forget to mention what you want in a man. I want a woman that can be confident enough to state what she wants in life and in a potential partner. And I hope I have been able to express myself, without pissing you off, in telling you the type of man I am to the fullest.

I wait to hear from you. Well, I wrote this mail and I am sending it right away without proof-reading so kindly ignore the mistakes. 
Oops! Now, I need a cup of coffee. Take good care of yourself and have a wonderful day! 
Write when you can.. This may be too much to put in at once!!  i’m sending this off so that i can get ready for the day.
Hugs and Kisses,
XOXOXOXOXOX
Love waits, 
-Jay.
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